Navigating cancer treatment is a multifaceted journey that extends far beyond medications and hospital visits. It involves listening to your body, respecting its limits, and practicing consistent self-care. As someone living with cancer who has undergone several surgeries and managed ongoing treatment side effects, I want to share a story, one that reminded me, quite painfully, of what happens when we stop paying attention to our body’s subtle cries for help.
You may have noticed that I’ve been absent from social media and my blog for a while. It’s been over a month since my last post. That’s because I had a serious health episode that took me completely by surprise and required a longer-than-expected recovery. To this day, I’m still experiencing pain in my teeth and jaw from the impact.
It all started on what seemed like a perfectly normal day. I had a lovely lunch that turned into an extended afternoon and evening of socializing and dancing, something I hadn’t done in a while and that made me feel alive. But in the excitement, I forgot something essential: to eat a proper meal, to hydrate, and to listen to my body’s limits. That night, I experienced severe cramps, and early the next morning, I fainted. I woke up in the emergency room with a fractured nose, damaged teeth, and a deep sense of realization: I had pushed my body too far.
As I approach my fifth year of treatment, I’ve been feeling more in tune with my routines. My body has adjusted in some ways, hot flashes have become less intense, my eyebrows and lashes have started growing back, and even my hair is beginning to fill in the patches that once felt bare. I felt stronger, more energized, and began taking on more activities.
But feeling “normal” again can be misleading. It can trick us into thinking we’re invincible, that we no longer need the same level of care. I began skipping meals, stretching my days longer, and unknowingly stopped listening to the quiet signals my body was sending. That episode was my body’s way of demanding I stop and pay attention.
Why Nutrition and Self-Care Matter So Much
Cancer treatments are tough. Chemotherapy, radiation, and hormone therapy can cause muscle wasting and reduce the body’s energy reserves. According to the American Cancer Society, protein is essential for recovery during cancer treatment, it helps repair tissues, supports immune function, and prevents excessive muscle loss.
Studies have shown that cancer patients often require more protein than usual, sometimes up to 1.5 grams per kilogram of body weight daily, to help preserve lean body mass and reduce the risk of treatment complications. Without enough protein and hydration, your body begins to break down muscle to find energy, which slows recovery and weakens your immune system.
In my case, a simple decision, skipping dinner and not drinking enough water, combined with accumulated fatigue, led to a full physical collapse. And the consequences were not just physical. It affected my emotional health, my productivity, and my confidence. It took weeks of quiet recovery, rest, and gentle nourishment to begin feeling like myself again.
Practical Tools for Staying on Track
Here are some of the lessons I’ve re-learned and want to share with you:
- Pause Often – Check in with yourself multiple times a day. Are you hungry? Thirsty? Overwhelmed? Don’t wait until it’s too late to respond.
- Eat Enough Protein – Prioritize protein-rich meals. Think eggs, legumes, tofu, lean meats, or protein smoothies. Your muscles, and your energy, depend on it.
- Hydrate With Intention – Water is medicine. Especially on treatment days or when you’re more active than usual.
- Rest Without Guilt – Fatigue is not weakness. It’s your body’s way of healing.
- Say No When Needed – Not every invitation needs a “yes.” Protecting your energy is an act of self-love.
- Track Your Recovery Cycles – Pay attention to patterns in your treatment. For example, I know the last days of my 21-day cycle hit me harder, so I plan to rest more during that time.
This experience, as difficult as it was, reminded me of something essential: self-care is not just about bubble baths and journaling—it’s about making conscious, sometimes tough decisions to protect your body and your peace. Especially during cancer treatment, when your system is already working overtime, your smallest choices can make the biggest difference.
And above all, this is a reminder of something I hold very close to my heart now: mindful living is a one-day-at-a-time practice. It’s not about controlling every outcome or expecting perfection. It’s about showing up for yourself, fully and honestly, in each moment. It’s about choosing presence, kindness, and softness, especially with yourself.
So here I am, back again, healing, learning, and living with more awareness. I’m learning to say “no” more often, not out of fear, but out of deep respect for the life I’ve fought so hard to preserve. And I hope this post serves as a gentle reminder for you, too: don’t wait for your body to scream. Listen when it whispers.
Hope this helps
With love, Ana!